The Multitude of Ways I Love My Wife

A blog about my wonderful & beautiful wife, and ALL the ways I love her.

Friday, April 29, 2005

I love that my wife puts up with my neuroses

neu·ro·sis n. pl. neu·ro·ses

Any of various mental or emotional disorders, such as hypochondria or neurasthenia, arising from no apparent organic lesion or change and involving symptoms such as insecurity, anxiety, depression, and irrational fears, but without psychotic symptoms such as delusions or hallucinations

That's for all who aren't sure what neuroses means, and just to say that I'm not TOTALLY insane :)

Anyway, I am so thankful that my wife puts up with my neuroses. Really, I'm sure most of use have had friends, family members, roommates, who are SO neurotic, that you wonder to yourself, "What am I doing with this person?" I know I can get like that some times. Like, just recently, Cindy was trying to help out our family (that is, me & here) with our income taxes, which in the past I have taken care of it. Well, for some unknown reason, I got upset at that. I don't know, maybe it's an insecurity on my part, but that's what happened.

And, ok, that's one incident, but when it happens every week... sometimes every day :( ... it can get annoying. But, my wife still loves me. My wife still puts up with me. My wife keeps working on our relationship with me. I love her for that.

I love my wife.

PS. just so that you don't think this is a one-sided relationship... she's no angel either (I'M JUST KIDDING, SWEETHEART!) :D

Thursday, April 07, 2005

I love my wife's intelligence

My wife is smart! I love that I can speak to my wife on an intellectual level, besides the emotional and spiritual levels. I love that I do not have to explain every little thing to her (though I know that I do sometimes... that's just the teacher in me... sorry, Love). I love that she has common sense. I am so thankful that she is not a "ditz" or an "airhead". Though, I probably would not have been attracted to her in the first place if she didn't have a head on her shoulders.

And the best part about it... she is intelligent in areas that I lack knowledge and know-how... and vice versa!

I love my wife!

And I am back :)